Dear Cupid,
We need to discuss your aim...or lack of aim i should say. I have forgiven you for past mistakes too many times and i feel its time we settle this once and for all. I'm not getting any younger and you my dear are frankly starting to piss me off with this weeks occurances. I let the fact that you made me fall for a hairy short fat guy and have a kid with him go. I let the fact that you then sent me a man who looks like a doberman go. I even let the lucky charms gremlin incident slide. Well this year you little bastard i'm putting my foot down!! You will strike someone worth knowing with that arrow because if you dont your going to find it shoved in a very akward place.
I went to walmart yesterday to treat myself to a much needed day of relaxation. After getting my hair and nails done i was feeling good about myself. Ive lost 22 pounds, got some self esteem, found a guy that i like ( which btw thanks for sending someone my way who isnt ready for a relationship...thats like being on a diet and someone giving you cheesecake and telling you to look but not eat...we will be discussing this later!! ) As i skipped across the parking lot my mood was euphoric until you decided to be cute.
Why....why cupid...why??!! What possessed you to shoot him with an arrow? Did you think it would be a good way to start out year 32? He pulled up next to my car in what i assume was once a nice truck. The barbwire holding the tailpipe up was classy but just not as classy as those naked lady mudflaps. No rearview mirror? No problem! He had rigged what i swear was a compact mirror to the windshield. He had to open the door from the outside and that bondo all over the truck? What girl wouldnt want to be seen in such a pimp mobile! But what really won me over wasnt the rebel flag stickers over every inch of the back windshield...or the natty light beer cans littering the back of the truck. No...what won this girls heart was the "HONK IF YOUR HORNY" bumper sticker. Trust me sir i will not be honking for you anytime soon.
My first thought was to stand real still because ive heard that there are a certain breed of men if you stand real still they cant see you. Too late he spotted me. My second thought was to not make eye contact. I scurried to my car acting like i was late for an appointment but this did not detour mr unfortunate. " Hey girl" and at that point i made eye contact. Now from my past boyfriends and two ex husbands i know that i got saddled with a joker. We have had many laughs over the years you and i about the men you seem to think would be appropriate for me but this year you didnt realize that i got some self esteem and have been plotting your demise for quite some time now. Jokes on you cupid. Your ass is going down this time. Nice try though.
I posess the writing skills to properly describe this man but its kind of like a freak show attraction. You would just have to see it to beleive it. Whoever said that the mullet had died in the 80's had obviously not met kid rock and billy ray cyrus's love child. But i'm Mandi and only the weird and macabe happen to me so i was blessed to meet up with him in a walmart parking lot. He had one of those buisness in the front party in the back mulletts. And im pretty sure he had the back part permed at one point. When he opened his mouth to speak i noticed two things. The huge wad of skoal and what i assumed were those fake billy bob teeth at first but nope on closer inspection those were the real deal missy. Earrings in both ears...the cheap gold studs he probably lifted from his moms dollar store collection. The wind shifted in our direction and i got a huge whiff of stetson. Cupid...your idea of a birthday present stinks. He reeked of a refund and i doubt i could give that present back.
He was one of those people who spells like he talks. You could just tell by the way he told me " You sure are purdy" had it followed up with "You sure do got a purdy mouth" or "Can you squeal like a pig" i would have whipped out the banjo myself and cut us a little jig. Then he decided to step in and take a sniff at me. Again i tried to stand as still as possible. If i played dead maybe he would just move on. " You smell clean" oh dear lord help me this fool wants to do one of two things. Take me back to the trailer park and knock me up with his mullett offspring so i can stand barefoot in a kids wading pool in the front yard while fetching him natty lites or he wanted to stuff me into a well. I didnt know which one was worse.
Suffice it to say cupid i flat told him i was busy and didnt have time to talk because i was running late. He said he hoped to run into me again. Dont hold your breath. This year you will not pull your jokes on me. I am tired of you sending me commitment-phobes, megalomaniacs, douchebags, cheaters, liars, insane in the membrane fellows, baby mama drama, and my all time favorite abusive assholes. I draw the line this time. You will send me someone good this year. If you do not i will be forced to pull drastic measures. I have a sister and quite a few female cousins you seem to like to pull jokes on as well and i would hate to round them all up for a good old fashioned mobbing. You know me cupid and you know im capable. The next time you pull that arrow back he better be tall, handsome, funny, smart, nerdy, employed, and sane. I'm watching you cupid........
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Dear Cupid...We need to discuss your aim
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Wednesday, September 9, 2009
For sale 1 overused Gremlin...comes with free cat
I forgot i had a blog until Ben reminded me. I only have two followers at this point so hopefully they are not too mad. Although poor Jen bless her heart is on Bed rest and i'm sure she would like something to read. Suffice it to say i am no closer to being married and at this point i am single. Being single doesnt bother me as much as it used too. Being 30 and not married bugs the shit out of me. Kind of a contradiction. Alot of things have changed for me. I have mentioned in the past that its hard for me to be friends with females but recently i discovered its not females so much as it is weak willed females. I was friends with a co-worker and we were really good friends until she lost her ability to think for herself. She's twenty-six and her whole world has become all about a nineteen year old blue haired unemployed boy. I understand that she hasnt had alot of experience in the real world and i say this because the majority of her life is spent in fantasy realms like Second life or Lord of the Rings online. Anything where she can escape reality and be someone other than herself. My dad got sick and she couldnt even focus on our friendship because she was so worried about his issues with his blue hair. I'm sorry but if your going to have smurf colored hair you better be prepared for some smurf colored comments. This chic got psycho about the whole incident. Threatning to cut me and two other girls up, giving this guy my phone number and many other things. I feel sorry for her. I shouldnt after the things she said ( like quit tweeting about my mom no one cares if she lives or dies ) but i do. When you are so miserable with who you really are it makes you fall for people who are not good for you and you give up parts of your life you may never be able to get back. This is why i am not married. I refuse to be like her. I dont beleive that you should let yourself go once your in a relationship or married. I also dont beleive that you should dress like a crumb bum every day or a guy, pull your hair back in a ballcap, never wear makeup and then say i'll dress up after i get a boyfriend. Ummm that kind of defies the purpose does it not? Appereance is the first thing that the opposite sex notices. You dont look at someone who looks had it and say " Gee i bet they have a wonderful personality." People do not go out looking for personality.
I do not always make the best judgement when it comes to men as you will see from the many fine examples i will give you later on. But the Gremlin slipped under my radar. I never even saw him coming. As i stated in my previous blogs he would text me alot. I'm all for those little texts throughout the day that let someone know that you are thinking about them but again i do not need those texts to be accompanied by your picture. At one point as i was sitting at my desk eating apples and flipping through text messages i thought....If something ever happens to him i will be able to provide the police with many pictures. ( Not to mention the DNA deposits he was leaving at my house ) I'm weird in the sense that when i meet someone i focus on one thing that i really like about that person. With Gremlin i couldnt find anything. And it was bugging the shit out of me. At one point i was getting up at 3:30 am to be at work at 6:00 am so i could bag some overtime and get alot of work done. So at 9:00 pm i was falling asleep. And every night at 9:30 0r 10:00 my phone was ringing. Okay i am not one of those chicks who has to fall asleep to the sound of your voice. And seeing as we werent even boyfriend and girlfriend at this point there was no point of me talking to him before i went to bed. I put my phone on silent and when i got up at 3:30 i notice there are five voicemails.
Gremlin: It's me. I just wanted to hear your voice before i went to bed.
Gremlin: It's me again. Just seeing if you would answer this time.
Gremlin: Do you ever answer your phone? I just got out of the shower and wanted to leave you that mental so myabe you would have dreams about me tonight.
Gremlin: Okay i'm about to give up calling you for the night...
Gremlin: Okay well i guess your asleep. I'll call you tomorrow.
It took you five times to figure out that i might be asleep? And to make things worse he called me at 3:30!!! Does this fucker ever sleep!? On friday he decided he wanted to come over. Fine. On saturday i wake up and he's in me bed. What the hell. I try to be polite and hint around that he needs to leave. Does he take the hint? No. He asks me what i'm making him for breakfast. What the hell? Is their a sign on my apartment somewhere that says soup kitchen? I called Johnny and Erin and said i need a break from this fool help!!! Most guys wont hang around while your getting dressed....not Gremlin. I heard Johnny pull up and silently reminded myself to flash him for saving me from the Gremlin. I get out the door and into the truck and Gremlin is loitering in front of my apartment. Bye. We drove off. We picked up Erin and later that night we ended up at the casino where i had a few too many. Poor Johnny. He always ends up with a pack of drunk bitches. I need a Doooooollllllar i slurred at him. For what he asked. For the slot machine...duh. This went on for about 30 minutes. Gremlin was supposed to meet us at the casino and drive us back home. I was drunk and wanted some taco bell. Gremlin shows up and informs Johnny that he cannot take me and Erin home because he was driving Mater and had only one seat. WTF?? I was pretty pissed off because he had told us beforehand that he would drive us home so that Johnny wouldnt have too. Well poor Johnny ended up driving us home and because of the time change we missed taco bell and ended up going to walmart where i tried flashing my bare ass to the world while trying on a pair of pink pants in the middles of the store. I get home and Gremlin had made a heart out of snow. Gremlins are slick. We dont give them enough credit for their devious ways. Tomorrow i will tell you what happens when you let a Gremlin in your house and feed him. And it doenst matter what time it is either. Feeding them after midnight is a myth.
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Sunday, July 12, 2009
I HIT THE BULLS EYE MAKING ALL THE BOYS CRY
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Friday, July 10, 2009
Pros and Cons of Gremlin Boy
I have certain requirements that have to be met before i will date someone. This may come across shallow but seriously i dont care.
1. You must have all your teeth. This should be a given but i cant tell you how many toothless guys have tried to justify their lack of chompers. They have to be nice teeth too. I dont really care if they are perfectly straight but they cant be jacked up like two teeth growing on top of each other or a big huge gap in between your teeth.
2. You must have a job. Dont try to slip under the radar by telling me you are self employed. You dont have a job you dont date me.
3. You must have your own vehicle. The only way you slip under the radar on this one is if you recently got into a wreck and are waiting to get a new one. Other than that you have no excuse. I will not do public transportation as a means of getting around on our date.
4. You have to be at least 5'10. I dont like short guys. I dont care if you say your " fun sized " it still equals too short for me.
5. If you are furry i am not dating you. I do not want to find your back hairs in my razor or clogging up my drains.
6. I will not date someone that has kids. This sounds shallow since i have kids but my oldest daughter's father only dates people with kids and married a woman who had two and never pays attention to his own daughter and i will not put my kids through that.
These are some of the basic rules. I have many more but will go into those at a later time. I met gremlin boy on my 29th birthday through a mutual friend. He kept giving me the eye which i found creepy because Rob was with me and Gremlin boy seemed to possess no shame about hitting on me. When he asked to join my myspace and i talked to him on yahoo he informed me that he was bi-sexual. This put a huge hell no into any possibility he ever had with me. He informed me that a man knows what a man likes. Well then you are dating some amatuer women. He kept trying to get me to go on a date with him in which i kept declining. So a year later as i was searching the floor for my bra wondering why he was still in my apartment and not leaving i asked myself what the hell had i been thinking? Why was he still talking like i cared what he was saying? I politely nodded my head and threw in a well placed laugh every now and then but truth be told i just wanted to go to bed. Then he said it....He broke one of the rules of Fuck Buddies.
Gremlin Boy: So am i staying the night?
Me: Hell no your not staying the night. I told you fuck and run boy.
Gremlin boy: Oh....i thought you were kidding.
Me: serioulsy? how many women kid aboout that shit?
Gremlin boy: well i have to admit your the first
Me: I have work tomorrow so i need to go to bed. I will talk to you later. ( Mental note to self erase number out of phone and do not call him again )
He left and i went to bed. At four thirty my phone sounded a text message alert. I rolled over and saw that it was from Gremlin Boy.
TEXT: GOOD MORNING SEXY! I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU. YOUR BEAUTIFUL!
I threw up a little in my mouth. I took a shower drank a cup of coffee fixed my hair and makeup and then my phone rang. It was the Gremlin on a fifteen minute break wanting to know if he could see me again. I went over the pros and cons in my head.
Pro: He was good in bed
Con: He was breaking all standard fuck buddy rules
Pro: He was good in bed
Con: He had the most annoying laugh in the world.
Pro: He was good in bed
Hormones win. Yeah come over tonight. Stupid Hormones....Always getting me in trouble!
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Thursday, July 9, 2009
Welcome to the jungle...we've got leopard underwear
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Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Intro to Gremlin boy
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Tuesday, July 7, 2009
In the Beginning...there were no cats...
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